“The Lord became angry with Solomon because his heart had turned from the Lord God of Israel” – 1 Kings 11:9
“I have this against you; you have left your first love.” – Revelation 2:4
Backsliding is when a person who follows Christ turns away from Him. To the backslider, God is no longer the main focus of his life. Without God’s leading, the person “backslides” into his old way of life.
What Causes Us To Backslide?
“Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall.” – Proverbs 16:18
“If you think you are standing firm, be careful that you don’t fall.” – 1 Corinthians 10:12
Pride is found at the root of backsliding. Pride tells us we don’t need God to lead us. There are two forms pride takes when it comes to backsliding: Trying to justify oneself to God and taking part in sin.
Pride Leads To Backsliding
“You who are trying to be justified by law have been alienated from Christ; you have fallen away from grace.” – Galatians 5:4
How can doing a good deed cause backsliding? Let’s say someone helps an elderly woman across the street. The Christian who is walking with God will say, “Jesus has been kind to me so I want to be kind to others,” where the Christian who is backsliding will say, “I am acceptable to God because I helped this woman across the street.”
Pride makes the backslider think that he can impress God, when in fact he’s moving away from Him because, “God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble” (James 4:6).
Sin Leads To Backsliding
“You were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the sinful nature; rather, serve one another in love.” – Galatians 5:13
Here again we see pride, but in this form pride makes the backslider say, “I can lead myself. I don’t need God to tell me what to do.”
Or, in another case, a person may face doubt or hard times, and instead of turning to the Lord who is our “strength and our shield” (Psalm 28:7), will instead turn away from Him.
Less and less time is spent looking for God’s direction, and the backslider will stop praying and reading the Bible.
Without God’s direction the backslider will lead himself. This results in a sinful life away from God because, as Jesus said, “I am the vine; you are the branches. If a man remains in Me and I in him, he will bear much fruit; apart from Me you can do nothing.” (John 15:5)
What Happens When We Backslide?
“Justice is far from us, and righteousness does not reach us. We look for light, but all is darkness; for brightness, but we walk in deep shadows. Like the blind, we grope along the wall, feeling our way like men without eyes. At midday we stumble as if it were twilight; among the strong, we are like the dead.” – Isaiah 59:9-10
When we backslide we no longer seek the Lords’ leading and we lack direction. We no longer fellowship with Him and so our hearts are empty because we were created to have a relationship with God.
As terrible as it is to have never have known the love of Jesus Christ, how much worse is it to have experienced His love then turn away? Once you’ve followed Jesus nothing else can ever truly satisfy you.
That’s why backsliding is such a terrible thing. The backslider tries to replace God’s prefect love with something imperfect. But the Lord stretches out His hand and offers to forgive and restore the backslider
Coming Back To God
We turn back to the Lord:
“If we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus, his Son, purifies us from all sin.” – 1 John 1:7
“I will frown on you on longer, for I am merciful, declares the Lord, I will not be angry forever. Only acknowledge your guilt – you have rebelled against the Lord your God” – Jeremiah 3:12
And we pray:
“Our offenses are many in your sight, and our sins testify against us. Our offenses are ever with us, and we acknowledge our iniquities.” – Isaiah 59:12
We are forgiven:
“If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.” – 1 John 1:9
Then we are restored:
“I will heal their waywardness and love them freely, for My anger has turned away from them.” – Hosea 14:4
“Peace, peace, to those far and near, says the Lord.” – Isaiah 57:19